I have witnessed so many people left adrift and stuck in their grief because they have made their loved ones “last moments” so important that they can barely function . The last moments of a persons life are so very often had in the deep reverence of solitude , when the room is empty , a back is turned … or for many their last moments come fast , unexpectedly and without warning - the truth is the act of dying is something we all must do by ourselves and so many people chose not to have that mom